It started when I was a kid, at about 5 we moved into an
apartment which was the top floor of my grandparents’ house. In the house, in
the living room/dining room jumble was a Steinway upright piano.
In my time, no one other than my father ever played it,
and even then my father played it once, much to my surprise. A piano was
just a fixture of the less than modern home, I figured. I did take a few lessons
from the very nice piano teacher across the street, but I was no good. I had
trouble reading music, or I just didn’t care. It was fun to bang on it a bit
every now and than but never a fixture in my life. That piano still sits, I
believe, in my Aunt’s basement in Baltimore.
Later on, when I lived with my wife and sons in
Pikesville, MD, a veterinarian friend had an assistant who was moving to a new
place and had a piano. She was willing to dispose of it to a good home, if
someone would pay to have it moved. I had space and three children and it was a
great idea. I paid movers to get it to the house. It was an upright player
piano with the player guts removed. I have no idea if any of us played it, but
it was a great fixture.
By then I played a guitar and understood chord
progression a bit, and got a piano chord chart (still have it) which allowed me
to play and scream (sing) and rock and roll. I do not remember if the boys
played it, my wife at the time did not. (My oldest son says he did, in fact, use the chord chart.)
I sold it right before I moved to Detroit, as the new
house came with a player piano (an upright of course) which fully worked and
had lots of player rolls. It was in the basement and we found out later it
simply was too heavy and cumbersome to ever move and it’s probably still there.
Everyone played it a bit, especially everyone took a turn
playing piano rolls, not much skill involved here.
I moved away from the family home in 1984 and had no
piano but by then had bought a keyboard or two. I still can’t remember if any
boys actually played this, but at this juncture in life I know my oldest son
has a piano from his uncle, which he plays a bit, as he is a musician. My
youngest son has a piano which he purchased but I don’t know if anyone in his
family plays it and my middle does not own a piano, at least I don’t think so. (My youngest son says his kids bang on it and it's pushing the floor down into the basement.)
My girls loved to play the keyboard, and my wife and I
played it a bit and enjoyed it. For Christmas one year we got a large keyboard
and loved it, and eventually, we had to buy a real piano, a Kawai which sits in
our living room. My wife continues to play and take lessons, my youngest
daughter is more of an ear musician but she took lessons until she learned
“enough” and is a chord player and really good and my older daughter, the
actual musician, is still mad we didn’t force her to take piano when she was a
little kid as she would be good now! Both daughters have keyboards as well.
While none of this makes much sense, I still bang out my
4 or 5 chords and yell tunes to the sky. The girls can’t be home if I play any
instrument or sing as they think I’m horrible, which is true but as it says in
“Mr. Tanner” (Harry Chapin reference)
“But
music was his life, it was not his livelihood,
and it made him feel so happy and it made him feel so good.
And he sang from his heart and he sang from his soul.
He did not know how well he sang; It just made him whole”.